March 5, 2012

Robin Sims Trailblazer Award

Posted in Life's Little Moments, My Take on Autism, Uncategorized tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , at 11:06 am by autismmommytherapist

(Billy and Bobbie Gallagher)

Music from “The Godfather” serenaded us as me and my husband secured our seats, wending our way through brightly decorated tables which were filled by the attendees from this year’s annual POAC Autism Services Gala. The theme this year was the roaring 20’s, and amidst zoot suits and faux furs, feathers and fedoras, the guests not only showed their support for children and adults with autism by their attendance, but many enjoyed a much-needed night out as well. This is my second year participating in this event, and while Gary Weitzen’s (Executive Director of POAC) welcoming speech is as usual filled with gratitude, there was a bit of a twist this year, an emphasis on an integral issue those of us with children on the autism spectrum must always remember.

All of us owe an enormous debt to those parents who came before us.

It’s a sentiment I write and think about often, as I reside firmly in the younger generation of children with the disorder, being the mother of two boys whose ages remain in single digits. I’ve always said that although my family’s journey has been arduous to say the least, the difference between our path and that of families with offspring at least ten years older than mine cannot compare. A decade or more before my eldest son was born, parents and others advocating for autism services both in government and in the schools had little or no support. In effect, they were starting from scratch so their children could receive even the bare minimum of assistance in terms of education, insurance coverage, and employment and residential opportunities when they reached adulthood.

Despite the difficulties of the challenges laid before them, many of the parents of children with autism who preceded me fought long and diligently to improve all areas of their children’s lives, including changing society’s perspectives on what individuals with autism can contribute to the world at large. They were trailblazers of the highest order, and every time I put my sons on their school busses, attend a recreational activity provided by POAC, or receive reimbursement for necessary therapies from our insurance provider, I try to remember to take a moment to mentally thank the individuals who eased my boys’ way with their efforts.

And Saturday evening, Gary Weitzen and POAC took the time to thank two individuals who exemplify exceptional advocacy.

This year, several of POAC’s board members created the Robin Sims Trailblazer Award to honor a relentless autism advocate, who was herself the mother of two children on the autism spectrum. Robin served for over a decade on the board of the VOR (the only national organization to advocate for a full range of quality residential options and services), and as their Board President until she passed. She also served as a member of the NJCDD, the New Jersey Council for Developmental Disabilities, which is the governing council for the Division of Developmental Disabilities. Robin fought relentlessly to ensure that families, regardless of their respective ethnic and financial statuses, remained an integral part of the decision-making process regarding the fate of their adult children with disabilities.

She was a force to be reckoned with and an inspiration to all who knew her, and a beloved sister, daughter, wife, and mother. Literally days before her death, members of Congress made time to meet with her regarding the Developmental Disabilities Assistance and Bill of Rights Act, listening to her impassioned pleas as she traversed the halls of the Capitol in her wheelchair. Tragically, she lost her fight to cancer seven months ago, leaving a void both within her family and within the autism community that will never be completely eradicated. She was utterly devoted to her two adult children with autism, and will be mourned by all who knew her.

Despite her myriad contributions, when it came time to select the first honoree for the Robin Sims Trailblazer Award, the choice was obvious. Bobbie Gallagher, an Ocean County resident and herself a mother of three, two of whom have autism, was the individual who most represented the same caliber of commitment and constancy in fighting for the rights of all individuals touched by autism spectrum disorders.

Our honoree, who by her own admission could not have accomplished all that she has without the help of her husband Billy Gallagher, has been working toward improving the lives of individuals with autism since her own daughter was diagnosed in the early nineties. She and her spouse were instrumental in soliciting the CDC to investigate a seeming cluster of children diagnosed with autism residing in Brick, NJ. While the study was inconclusive, it was the genesis for other vital studies that have assisted those with autism in the Garden State.

Bobbie’s work and alliance with United States Congressman Chris Smith, himself a tireless autism advocate, helped bring about CARA (the Combating Autism Reauthorization Act), which was passed by Congress in 2006, and H.R. 2005, a bill created to reauthorize the initial CARA act. She is a BCBA (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) who has offered many hours of her time to conduct trainings for parents and professionals through POAC Autism Services, as well as other autism organizations. For several decades, she has made an indelible contribution to our community.

In addition to all the “serious stuff”, she’s also a great mom, tough as nails, and a lot of fun.

I have it on good authority that Robin Sims, were she still with us, would have been thrilled by the selection of this particular individual. As I watched Bobbie receive her award at the Gala Saturday night, an honor capped off by the knowledge that the American flag had been flown over the Capitol in both of their names, I reflected on the torch that will soon be passed to my generation. We have to continue to make whatever contributions we can, both minute and monumental. It is imperative that we forge ahead on the path that has been set before us, one created by a labor of love.

And at the conclusion of Bobbie’s moving speech, as an entire room stood to honor both women in gratitude, I reminded myself it was one of those moments to say “thank you”, just this time out loud.

February 23, 2012

Gratitude Attitude

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My Gratitude Attitude this week goes to both of my sons’ teachers, and their in-class aides as well.  There have been a number of challenges tackled with both kids recently, and everyone has pitched in and done their part.  We are so appreciative, thank you!

February 8, 2012

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to Gary Weitzen, Executive Director, and Simone Tellini, Training Coordinator, of POAC Autism Services.  Both have been  instrumental in helping me get my play, “Raising Autism”, off the ground.  All proceeds from the play will go directly to POAC Autism Services.  Thanks to both of them, and for further information, go to their website at:

February 3, 2012

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to the Autism Treatment Network at CHOP, the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia.  Our “treatment team” for Zachary, which consisted of Dr. Amanda Bennett, developmental pediatrician; Dr. Iadarola, psychologist; and our nurse practitioner, Megan Ott, could not have been more knowledgeable nor more compassionate.  I discovered the existence of the ATN centers through the Autism Speaks website, and I am so that glad I did.  It is wonderful to spend five hours with professionals who not only “get” our situation, but send us off with very practical recommendations that same day.  Thanks again, I will be writing about the entire experience soon!

January 26, 2012

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to my mom, both for all her help with my kids, and for being brave enough to continue trying to teach me how to cook (we’ll get there!). Thanks for being such an important part of our household!

January 13, 2012

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to Aunt Deb, for some wonderful reminiscing and for just being fabulous all-around; and to my “little” brother Erik, for being the best Jedi Zach’s met so far, and for knowing me so well.  Thanks to all!

December 21, 2011

Gratitude Attitude

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Today’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to Christina Johnson, editor of the Holmdel Patch. This weekend Ms. Johnson extended to me both the opportunity to write at her particular Patch, and offered to recommend my blog to the Manalapan, Matawan-Aberdeen, Marlboro, Rumson-Fair Haven, Freehold,Red Bank-Shrewsbury, Little Silver-Oceanport, and Middletown Patches as well. Thanks so much Christina, I truly appreciate the effort!

December 15, 2011

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to Diane at the Colts Neck Pharmacy, for going out of her way to pick up  the Colts Neck Calendar so I could have an actual copy of my article.  A second shout out to my Aunt Candee, for schlepping out to get it for me during a crazy week.  Thanks ladies, particularly at this busy time of year!

December 8, 2011

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to a random woman in a sensory-friendly showing of the Muppets this past weekend, one who gave me a smile and a look of understanding that helped me out a great deal that morning. Thanks to everyone in our community who takes a moment of their time to connect!

November 18, 2011

Gratitude Attitude

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This week’s Gratitude Attitude goes out to my mom and Aunt Kate, for helping make “Sleepover Part Three” a resounding success.  Disney, here we come!

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