April 1, 2011
Autism Awareness Month
It’s the start of Autism Awareness Month today, with the fourth annual World Autism Day to follow tomorrow, April 2nd. I’d just like to thank everyone in advance for turning their porch lights to blue tomorrow evening (hell, you can do it the whole month if you’d prefer!). If you have no idea what I’m talking about, please refer here to a beautiful letter written to President Obama by Jess from adiaryofamom. No further explanation necessary!
I’d also like to say thanks as well to everyone who has contributed to any of POAC’s four upcoming walk-a-thons, the first of which is tomorrow, April 2nd, at Blueclaws Stadium in Lakewood. Looking forward to seeing you at the walk, and again, thanks for your support!
March 30, 2011
Wretches and Jabberers
This Friday night in New York a documentary film will be airing called Wretches and Jabberers (I know, it sounds like something that would have been broadcast on PBS twenty years ago). Despite its strange title, the movie is actually focused on a subject that, to my intense delight, is becoming more and more mainstream in the press. Its protagonists are Tracy Thresher and Larry Bissonnette of Vermont, and the film documents the struggles and triumphs of two adults with autism who remain all or mostly non-verbal, yet still have a great deal to communicate to the world.
And yes, if I had a life, I’d schlep in to see it.
Directed by Academy Award Winner Gerardine Wurzburg, the film follows both men on a tour of Sri Lanka, Japan, and Finland, as they speak with both “everyday folk” and Buddhist monks in an attempt to change peoples’ opinions regarding disability, intelligence, and modes of communication. Bissonnette possesses some facility with traditional language, Thresher does not. Both struggled in school and within their communities, but had whole worlds opened up to them with the creation of augmentative devices.
Yes, there’s a theme here. My fingers are crossed Justin’s iPad may one day lead to a similar success for him. Let’s just say my toes are crossed too.
When recently asked at a conference by the mother of an eleven-year-old girl with autism what advice the men had to give her, Thresher replied, “That is easy. Believe in their intelligence, presume competence, and most of all don’t sideline them. Make sure they live a life with dignity, having a purpose in life.” That quote particularly resonated with me because my son, although non-verbal, possesses a fierce intelligence, one that might have gone unnoticed twenty, or perhaps even ten years ago. I shudder to envision the trials and tribulations these men must have encountered in childhood, living in a world not yet equipped to celebrate them. I shudder to think if I’d had my son at a “normal” age, this might have been his fate as well.
The director’s motivation for creating the film was to “challenge the general public’s perception about people with different abilities”. She considers this mission to be “both a human rights and civil rights issue”. Through their own accomplishments and Wurzburg’s “voice”, Thresher and Bissonnette have since successfully challenged these presumptions, as the two men formally regarded as “social outcasts” now are popular speakers at workshops and conferences. They have already altered the landscape of disability, simply with their presence.
And to Tracy Thresher, Larry Bissonnette, and Gerardine Wurzburg, a most heartfelt “bravo” for sharing and facilitating a story the world still needs to hear.
Wretches and Jabberers, for those of you who are not NY locals, will be playing at local AMC theatres nationwide on Saturday, April 2nd, World Autism Day.
For more information regarding the film:
http://www.wretchesandjabberers.org/
Larry Bissonnette: http://www.myclassiclifefilm.com/
March 29, 2011
Gratitude Attitude
Today’s Gratitude Attitude is dedicated to all the people participating in this Saturday’s first POAC walk-a-thon, at Lakewood Blueclaws Stadium. My most heartfelt gratitude to all!
In anticipation of everyone’s efforts, I’d also like to say thank you in advance to those who will be turning their porch lights to blue on Saturday, April 2nd (read link here). Thank you so much!
April 16, 2010
Autism Awareness Month
April 2nd was World Autism Day (I know, my two autistic kids were home on spring break and I didn’t post to the blog, yet I was still completely aware of autism, trust me), and I’d just like to take a few minutes to draw our collective attention to a few groups of people who seem to get left out when it comes to recognition and appreciation. There is always a great deal of focus on the filmmakers, writers, celebrities, and parents who promote the cause, and all of that is of course, positive. Even though there are so many controversies surrounding the disorder, when it comes to autism, any news is good news in my opinion, as it continues to draw attention to the plight of autistic children and adults.
There are plenty of other factions however, the unsung heroes if you will, who have made and continue to make my sons’ lives, and the lives of thousands of other people with autism, easier and more fulfilling every day. There are the individuals who fought relentlessly for IDEA, the law which entitles my son to an appropriate education, in a time period when autism awareness was in its nascent stages. There are the parents and legislators, right here in my home state, who worked so diligently to pass a bill which will force insurance companies to shoulder a portion of autistic childrens’ therapeutic burden this year, for the very first time (although only a portion of the population is eligible to receive compensation, which does not include us.)
There are the teachers, aides, specialists, and directors of special education who tirelessly strive to accommodate the varying and disparate needs of all of their students on the spectrum, a Herculean task at best given today’s current educational climate. There are the many various national and local non-profit organizations that raise awareness and funding with which they aim to improve the lives of families impacted by autism. And finally, there is my favorite group, those scientists delving daily into the secrets of the psyche, teasing out the combinations of genes that create a susceptibility to autism, and the possible environmental triggers that perhaps make development of the disorder an inevitability.
I know, it’s not Autism Gratitude Month, but I am aware of the gifts these groups have made to our community, and many other people who deal directly with the effects of autism in their lives are aware as well. Sometimes we parents of autistic children are just a wee bit too busy to take the time to ruminate (or breathe, for that matter), and I just want it on record that I acknowledge, and thank, the thousands of individuals whose collective contribution has enhanced the quality of life for so many of our children, and our adult children as well.
Thank you, and let’s extend this attention shamelessly like I do my birthdays, and call this Autism Awareness Decade. It’s worked for me.